I've been dating this guy for almost two years now and although he has
never hit me, he's always threatening violence. He would tell me things
like 'If you don't shut your mouth, I'm going to smack you. Why would
you behave like that? You deserve to be punched. One of these days I
will give you a dirty slap. I don't take nonsense, I will beat you. You
are pushing me, one of these days you will get it." He has been saying
things like this for almost two years but has never laid a finger on me.
Now he wants to marry me. I will never tolerate violence on my person
and because of his words I'm hesitant to accept his proposal. When I
told him what my reservations were, he said he's never hit a woman and
doesn't plan to. So why does he say it all the time? My friend told me
men change when they become husbands. Would he act out his threats when I
marry him?
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