Words can hurt, and though they don’t like to admit it, men get in their feelings just as much as we do. Follow this guide, and keep your foot out of your mouth and his feelings intact. —Kenrya Rankin Naasel
Also Read: 10 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING NO WHERE
1. 'I DON’T HAVE TO DO THAT ANYMORE — I HAVE YOU!'
Whether it’s giving him, ahem, treats, wearing lingerie to bed, or closing the door when you pee, what you’re explicitly telling him is that his worst fears are true: you are morphing from the cool girl he fell for into his ex.
2. 'YOU’RE JUST LIKE MY EX.'
Do we really need to explain this one? Just. Don’t.
3. 'I’M FINE.'
Your mouth might say you’re good, but your crossed arms and side-eye say otherwise. Things will go much easier for you both if you’re upfront when you’re upset about something.
4.'CAN YOU AFFORD THAT?'
If you’re still at a point in your relationship where you have to say “you” and not “we,” then it’s none of your business. Don’t count his pockets; trust him to make good decisions.
5. 'MAN UP.'
This implies that he is acting like less than a man. He will 100 percent of the time revert to a boy if you say this.
6. 'SIZE DOESN’T MATTER.'
If it doesn’t matter, why are you bringing it up? Girl, don't go there — ever.
7. 'DO YOU THINK SHE’S PRETTY?'
Yes, he does, but it has no reflection on you. He thinks you are beautiful. And quite honestly, asking makes you sound a bit insecure.
8. 'I’M NOT YOUR MOTHER.'
He definitely doesn’t want to associate you with his mama, so you don’t need to conjure up those images.
9. 'YOU LOOK CUTE.'
He doesn’t want to look “cute,” he wants to look “handsome” and “sexy.” Tell him that.
10. 'WE NEED TO TALK.'
Really? Are we still saying this? This is the worst way to start a conversation. It puts him on alert and in a defensive mindset. Go for a walk and bend his ear, or chat over dinner.
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