With the New Year right around the corner, why not make one of your resolutions to try new things in the bedroom? If you’re up for the challenge, let us help you with these tried and true sexy suggestions. By Kellee Terrell
A lot of sex and relationship advice doesn’t take into account that everyone enters this conversation from a different place. Some of you are less experienced, while some of you have very little inhibitions. Either way, we want for you to be more adventurous, but only if you’re comfortable and you're truly doing it for you.
Get your tamer version of Fifty Shades of Grey on by adding a blindfold into the mix. You can cover his eyes, yours or both to turn up the foreplay intensity. It’s the mystery of it all that makes it hot.
Sometimes you just want to jump on in, but switch it up and try to make the foreplay last longer. Nibble, kiss and explore a little bit more. Keep him waiting a little bit — and get yours, too.
We all have little spots all of over our body that get us all caught up in our feelings. But if you don’t explore his body, you won’t find them. So go ahead and dive in, no map necessary.
Now, we’re not saying do the deed in public, but remember that the bed isn’t the only place where you can get busy. Switch it up: Try the couch, kitchen table, floor or even the shower next time.
Missionary better not be the only position you both are knocking out! Go ahead and climb on top or try other positions that will maximize your pleasure. Not sure which positions to try? Go here for suggestions.
Whether you want to be sexy librarian helping him pick out a book or Mrs. Claus helping Santa stuff the stockings, role play can be a really fun way to spice things up. And bust out the lingerie — the girly sets with stockings, lace onesies and freaky fishnets.
It’s easy to get caught up in the cotton panty, T-shirt, straight to bed and under the covers routine. Try turning up the heat by putting on that black lace getup and setting the mood with slow jams and candles.
Only have 10 minutes? No problem. Go ahead and get your man and get it in.
Some women like for the man to be the aggressor, but flipping the script by being a bit more aggressive will take him by surprise and definitely turn him on. It's the perfect time and place to show off your confidence and sexiness.
Toys aren’t just for kids, honey. From vibrators to fuzzy handcuffs to flavored lube, adding some sex toys into the bedroom can be incredibly sexy and fun for you two.
Whether you want to send a sexy pic is up to you. If that’s not your speed, try texting him about the freaky little things you want to do to him when he gets home. I’m sure he will appreciate it.
This one takes a lot of trust and openness, but it can be a turn on to you and for him as he watches you get off. Plus, it's a sexier way to show him what you like so he can know how to reciprocate that feeling.
Having animalistic crazy sex can be pretty incredible, but so is really slowing everything down and making love to one another. Make it more intimate: Lock his fingers with yours, look into his eyes, kiss him softly and let him know you love him. Nothing is hotter than that.
No need to stay quiet during sex, you’re not in a library. So go ahead and wake those neighbors up. Let him know that what he is doing is exactly what’s up. Oh, and don’t be afraid to talk dirty to give him extra incentive to work even harder.
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